>Protecting the Work

>Thanks to Gail Dayton, my accountability partner, for the title and phrase for this post. I was thinking in terms of believing in your story, etc., but her phrase “protect the work” fits SO much better. Thanks, Gail!

It’s taken me a long time, as a writer, to get to the point where I’m able to “protect my work”. In other words, I feel secure enough in my vision of a manuscript to discard advice given in a critique, even if it comes from a published author.

That’s not to say I’m so married to my words that I ignore anyone who doesn’t agree with me. Not at all. I’ll admit to a little arrogance now and again, but mostly it’s that I’m able to step back from the criticism now and look at the advice more objectively.

For me, majority rules – most of the time. If three people love something or ‘get’ it and one doesn’t? Go with the three, but remember, your opinion counts too.

If they’re split 50/50, it’s your call. Ask yourself, What works better for your story, your character, your vision?

I hadn’t really thought about how knowing what kind of story you want to write helps to give a writer enough confidence to “protect the work” until I read Gail’s insightful blog entry. She’s absolutely right, IMO. I didn’t always know what kind of story I wanted to write. Vaguely, yes. Concretely, no. But once I had that direction pinned down, my story ideas came more sharply into focus.

Look for a post later this week on how to determine what kind of story (or stories) you write best.

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CataUniversity’s May Challenge begins in 3 days!

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>Catching up, good news and a departure

>This week has been a whirlwind of activity, but with everything but writing. Alas, some weeks are like that.

Two bits of good news from this week: On Friday, I received a contract for a True Confessions story I submitted over two years ago! No matter. It’s a sale, it’s income. I’ll take it. 🙂

The second good thing was in my e-mail Saturday morning: notification that my short story, “Gamble on Love” has been accepted for publication in the new Love Stories Magazine by Grass Roots Publishing. Another bit of writing income, yay!

And the departure: My son is preparing to move to the Los Angeles area next Thursday and begin his professional acting career. For the second time, he’ll be leaving the nest. While my hubby and I want this for him and recognize it should be a good move for his career, it’s hard knowing he’s moving so far away. Who knows when we’ll see him again?

His being back at home has been, at turns, frustrating and inconvenient (as can be the case with any parent whose adult child moves back home), but overall he’s a very upbeat, centered person and utterly enjoyable to be around. I’ll miss him and his easy smile terribly.

Look for him on your TV or movie screen soon and remember the name: Jason Burnside.

Jason (pictured above) leaves May 1st, the same day I begin a month-long challenge with Catauniversity to write 25K in 31 days. I need the distraction, the focus and push to really get rolling on His Perfect Partner (aka HPP).

J.T. and Cass are great characters with painful pasts and (if I can do their story justice) I expect this book could be the best of the three Baxter books. And to that end, I must get back to writing.

Wish us both luck, won’t you?

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>Happy Anniversary, my love!

>Yes, today is the day. Hubby and I are celebrating 28 Years! This year we have an odd circumstance. Hubby is currently commuting to work long distance, as in work is several states away. Therefore, this year we won’t be together on our anniversary.

As our consolation gift, we enjoyed a trip to Washington, D.C. last weekend and are planning a lovely dinner out toward the end of the month.

So, to my hubby:
Happy Anniversary, Sweetie. I’ll be thinking of you, missing you and wishing we were together. Though we’re apart in miles, you’re still with me every day, in my heart, and always will be.
Much love,
Carol

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