Happy Make Your Own Holiday Day!

In celebration of “Make Your Own Holiday” Day and prompted by Eli Pacheco of CoachDaddy, who is compiling new holiday suggestions, my new holiday is Believe In Your Better Self Day.

I don’t know where my propensity for negative self-talk originated from or why, but I seem to be way better at it than affirmations, which make me feel silly and embarrassed. Ergo, I need a Believe In Your Better Self Day, perhaps more than others.

My better self writes faster than I do. She cleans house more frequently, exercises and is more efficient and energetic and cheerful about it all. (Damn it!) She is my Dream Barbie in stylish clothes and a pink convertible, wearing a flamboyant head scarf and designer sunglasses with such élan that people stop to smile and wave. They shake their heads and wonder where she gets all that energy and zest for life.

Hmm. Perhaps that’s pushing things a bit too far, especially for a fifty-something homebody writer who is perfectly content in her favorite armless chair, laptop in place, a dog snoozing contentedly nearby, and the TV playing soft background music. Dream Barbie resembles the me of thirty years ago. But today, my better self will surface.

Better Self will write more than she did yesterday. She will stop procrastinating and continue compiling those dreaded tax records, even if it’s only for an hour. The recumbent bike isn’t pink, but I’ll climb into the seat and utilize my e-reader while trying to forget I’m exercising for health and energy, no head scarf needed. How’s that for efficiency, Dream Barbie?

Do you want to be a better friend/person/employee? Perhaps your Better Self is more athletic, tactful, patient or less judgmental. Imagine, if everyone, for just one day a year, decided to let out their Better Self! Even if it happens in small increments, I believe it would be contagious and one day would become two, then three . . .

What does your Better Self look like?

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Spring Fling Blog Hop WINNERS are…

GRAND PRIZE WINNERS:

Kindle Fire— Sally Fryman Wagoner

$75 Amazon Gift Card— Eva

$25 Starbucks Gift Card— Eva Millien

$25 Blushing Books Gift Card— Kathy Osborn

$25 Loose ID Gift Card— Jessica Subject

and my winners are:

Amy Bowens – ecopy of A Suitable Wife.CarolBurnside_ASuitableWife800Skeeter Lee – $10 Amazon Gift Certificate

amazon-gc-100._V192250695_Congratulations and thanks for participating. You should receive an e-mail from me today.

Amy, if you would, let me know in the comments below which file type you need. I have PDF, ePub (Nook and most e-readers and apps) and .mobi (Kindle and Kindle apps).

Entrants were assigned a number based on order of entry. Random.org chose numbers corresponding to Amy and Skeeter’s names. I had a great time interacting with everyone and hope you enjoyed the hop. Special thanks go out to Jane Wakely, Blushing Books, Sue Lyndon and Patty Devlin for the grand prizes and sponsorship.

Check back here for these upcoming hops and more chances to win:

Alpha Male Madness – Apr 11-18

Wicked Nights – May 14-21

Covergasm – Jun 6-13

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SPRING FLING Blog Hop #HopswithHeart

Sepia Shot of a Young Kissing Couple. Photo.Today the Spring Fling Blog Hop commences and the fun ensues. Join me in celebration of LOVE and SPRING!

Is there anything more Spring-like than seeing daffodils pushing up through cold, often wet ground to reach the sun? Here in northern Arkansas, the daffodils are up and beginning to bloom. The birds are returning. I see and hear more of them every day. And those noisy little frogs, the Spring Peepers, are in full song every evening.

Soon the Phoebe’s will return to their nest, court and preen and do what birds do in Spring. Yes, even the birds know that Spring is the best time for love.

Just as the earth comes alive again, so do our hearts, if we let them. And that’s the catch, isn’t it? To risk getting hurt again, to trust someone with our heart?

To illustrate that inner struggle, here’s a short excerpt from the first book in my Sweetwater Springs series, A Suitable Wife:

Rosie waited for the door to close behind her. When it clicked shut, her composure dissolved. She touched trembling fingertips to her lips and squeezed her eyes shut, reliving the moment Sam had deepened the kiss. The flash of heat had surprised her and had nothing to do with mere friendship.

She’d thought needing an infusion of cash into her business was a big deal. But this was huge. All their talk of marriage and wedding plans, hand-holding and kissing had resurrected hopes and dreams she’d thought destroyed. Dead.

From his ever present humor, he obviously hadn’t experienced the same level of attraction to her, if any.

Sam had made it clear this was a temporary, strictly business agreement. He didn’t want anything from her except a wifely performance good enough to fool a judge.

How could she possibly keep her attraction hidden for a whole year?

***

After a night of troubled sleep, the best solution Rosie could think of was avoidance. Whenever she and Sam weren’t in the public eye, she’d simply avoid him.

She’d figure out a way to make it work. After all, he had his work and she had hers. They needn’t spend every waking hour together.

As she backed the van from her garage, a masculine voice called “Hey, Rosie!” She braked and looked for its source.

Sam approached her vehicle. He was dressed for a run, in shorts and a tank that had seen better days. Lorelei rode along in front of him, buckled into a three-wheeled stroller.

Rosie lowered her window, deciding designers wasted their time with the business casual look. Rugged tatters were infinitely more appealing.

“Good morning.” Sam stopped alongside the van and leaned a tanned forearm on her window frame. He smelled deliciously clean with a trace of shaving cream. “Are we still on for brunch?”

Rosie tried hard not to let her gaze stray from his face. She would not stare at the sprinkling of chest hair peeking over his tank. Glance, maybe—to commit to memory—but no staring. Concentrating on his face didn’t help either. One look in those serious eyes rimmed with long dark lashes and her lower abdomen ached in the best way possible.

“We need to be seen together a lot,” he reminded her.

Right. Except then she couldn’t avoid him.

She tried to concentrate on his words. “I have a couple errands to run, but we could meet back here in about an hour.”

“Great. I’m sure the power bar I had for breakfast will be long gone by then.” He turned to leave, then pivoted back. “I called Bill earlier. He’ll overnight the prenup in the morning. If you can manage a couple hours free during the week, we could run by the courthouse, apply for the license and have everything ready for a quick ceremony after we tell your folks.”

“I’ll check my schedule and let you know when I can work it in.”

“All right. See you later.” Sam leaned in the window and gave her cheek a quick kiss. “There’s an elderly couple walking this way. Couldn’t pass up the opportunity,” he whispered with a wink before retreating.

Rosie stared at the spot where his face had disappeared, her cheek hot where his lips had brushed skin. She inhaled his lingering scent before checking her rearview mirror and accelerating. Nothing happened. She blinked twice while staring at the gearshift before realizing she’d shifted the van into park. Sheesh! The man should be arrested for looking so . . . distracting this early in the morning.

Here she was getting more gaga over his fine, testosterone-filled self by the minute, and he was merely concerned with getting the show on the road.

Why couldn’t she look at their agreement the same way?

Until she’d sequestered herself in the dark confines of her bedroom last night, she hadn’t realized how much the thought of a quick civil ceremony bothered her. Fake marriage or not, a hundred guests or two witnesses, she’d always seen herself in a long, white dress and veil at her wedding. And she was getting married—sort of.

She gripped the steering wheel, rested her forehead on her hands and sighed. It was silly to feel cheated. But this wedding might be her only personal experience with one. The fallout from her relationship with Dean had left her feeling like she was . . . less. Damaged goods. Not quite whole. Until Sam’s odd proposal, she’d kept buried what few romantic notions remained.

Stop it, Rosie scolded herself. She’d made her decision and she’d stick with it. Sam needed her. Lorelei needed her.

It would have to be enough.

She could still avoid Sam whenever possible. She might be stuck parading around town with him this morning, but the rest of the day would be hers alone.

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The Grand Prizes for the Spring Fling Blog Hop are:
One Kindle Fire–Donated by Blushing Books!
One $75 Gift Card to Amazon (or Barnes and Noble)–Donated by Jane!
One $25 Starbucks Gift Card–Donated by Sue Lyndon!
One $25 Gift Certificate to Blushing Books–Donated by Patty Devlin!

For the Grand Prize Giveaway, readers only need to fill out the Rafflecopter box and press enter! (One entry per person!) Winners will be chosen on Monday, March 24 using Random.org. Click on this link: a Rafflecopter giveaway to enter the Grand Prize Giveaway.

CarolBurnside_ASuitableWife800In addition, I’m giving away an ecopy of A Suitable Wife and a $10 Amazon Gift Card. For my prizes, entrants are required only to comment on this post. If you’re so inclined, browse around this website for more excerpts and book info. You may also connect with me via Facebook / Twitter / Newsletter / Goodreads

Winners of my prizes will be drawn on March 24th from commenters on this blog. and announced on this blog by March 25th. Good luck!

This link will take you to more participating authors and more prizes! http://www.hopswithheart.blogspot.com

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